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friday: interview, me.

Wow.

Today is a day for transparency.

It is one of those days that so many things come to head, so many things go wrong, everything breaks, every bill is due, and everyone elses life is going SPLENDIDLY. (or so it always seems. ya know, that grass is greener thing?)

So the only thing I could muster today is honesty. So, I’m interviewing myself. I hope all it doesnt bore any of you to tears, hearing about me and my life, what makes me tick, what I love and dont love.

 

Love:

I love being at home…I am a homebody. I love to have nothing better to do than clean and organize and decorate, then sit back and simply stare at it all. One of my favorite things growing up around the holidays was the night we picked up and decorated our christmas tree. At the end of the night when all the lights in the house were up, and the christmas tree was adorned with all our old and sentimental ornaments, I’d watch one or both of my parents just sit in the rocking chair with a cup of egg nog and stare at the tree. Stare at the beautiful twinkling lights. I started to do the same thing. For years now that I have my own tree, I either forget to do this at the end of the night, or I get caught up in making it SO pretty that at 2am its too late to sit and relax without passing out sitting up. But I love this. This takes me to loving lights. I love them. All kinds. Outdoor lights, lights with fire, indoor lamps and decorative lights, anything that gives off some mood. I love mood.

I really do love to get up early. Well, let me re-phrase; I love the way I feel when I’m up early in the morning. (I wish my body and my mind would simply cooperate..). The feeling that nothing is awry, everything is right in the world because there is fresh air outside…the wind that blows today is different than yesterdays. The sun is up and so are my spirits. I always get so much done, as opposed to starting my workday around noon when I dont get up early. (no, this does not mean I sleep till noon peeps, hello..I have 2 kids under 2! it simply means that by the time I do everything for everyone else, the workday finally starts at noon)

I love “window shopping”. Of course I’d love to buy as well, but I think I’ve “not had money” long enough in my life to where I actually enjoy just shopping without buying now. Cityplace is 5 minutes from our house, and I love to go and browse Anthro, Barnes and Nobles, Restoration Hardware, and Pottery Barn. Just walk slow, browse, ooo and ahh, look, love, and then leave. This is probably why I do not like salespeople. I know you peeps have a job you’ve gotta do, but I hate being hassled to buy things. (this should go down in the dislike section, but oh well)

I love switching my channel over to HD Theater when “sunrise earth” or any of those other fabulous nature shows are on. Like anyone else, its a huge dream of mine to travel. Not when I retire, but now. Every year, take a month and go somewhere awesome. I’d really love to take summers off, when we are at a point financially when we can do that, i’ll be the happiest woman in the world. I love how I small I feel just seeing the Sequoia National Forest on the television…I cant imagine seeing it in person.

I get so much energy from night drives. I love to take a drive at dusk. Whether its on A1A or just 2 minutes to Target, I love to get out and drive at night…favorite time being when the sun has just set and its a bit cooler out. I think when I was younger night was joyful to me. It meant going out, having fun, no worries, workday done…and now night times means workday just beginning, cleaning house, cleaning the kitchen, picking up after a toddler, taking care of a newborn…so if I get to take a bit of a “away time” drive, I feel much better about myself.

 

I got no love for:

People whose grass really IS greener. How many times growing up did you hear, “lifes not fair” in response to your “but mom, its just not fair”. well, it really isnt. Its just not fair how A-Rod can throw a ball around and make 80 million dollars, while I work my tail off to provide for my family and just barely SHMEAR by on a daily basis. Dont get me started on sports players. We’ll be here all night.

 

And thats as far as I get with the no love section…basically, I dont feel like giving my no love section the time of day.

Its another lonely night here at the hood house, with ben headed out to the raceway to take pics and the kiddos hopefully going to bed early and not being nightmares. Maybe that movie and wine will happen actually. Or maybe I’ll fore-go everything I know to be right and normal and I’ll work all night. Convince me otherwise ladies!

 

 

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thursday:LLP’s, Jones Design Company.

I’ve mentioned on here before how much I love checking in on the ladies over at The Creative Mama for all things, well… mommy and creative. They continually bring something to the table that is fresh, and helpful, and beautiful to boot.

This morning as I fumbled around in bed for my phone, I saw the latest tweet and headed over to TCM blog to find an amazing woman being featured; Emily Lex of Jones Design Company.

Emily is a lover of all things creative, design, paper, home, and most importantly she loves Jesus and is a great mama to her kiddos and wife to her hubby.

The post on TCM has a few before and after room designs that she had done. They were stunning. But what drew me to click on her site was the sentence that read, “I also really love her post about time management.”

Dunzo. I was at her website within mere seconds.

I am a sucker for 1) all things self help and 2) a fellow mommy who blogs about her life struggle with the dreaded term, ‘time management’.

What I read, I wasnt prepared for. I was expecting a checklist of sorts, “do this, get rid of this, organize your entire life and then you can start this checklist, get a nanny and a housecleaner”, etc. What I actually came across were 9 totally do-able, totally down to earth, totally normal and ATTAINABLE goals to keep in mind when trying to manage your time.

Please,before going any further, read her post about time management and then come back to me.

There. Feel better dont you? a little more “as it turns out, im not as crazy and manic as i thought” huh?

1. some things can wait.

2. do little things as you go.

3. multi-task

4. stay focused when it matters most

5. delegate and ask for help (and then accept it)

6. create a schedule

7. limit tv watching and internet searching

8. let go of guilt

9. grab hold of the really valuable moments.

the two things that hit me most? First,  creating a schedule and sticking to it. Obviously I’m bad at this. And honestly, its really difficult when you’re children are young like mine are. Nothing is ever planned, there’s no schedule that they adhere to day in and day out. Its also difficult when you work from home, and when you’re currently living paycheck to paycheck i.e. needing to work your tail off whenever you have a spare moment.

Hopefully Ben will find a job. Hopefully I’ll learn to have a schedule around my kids non-schedule. Hopefully we’ll get out of debt and wont have to ship out everything we get in so I dont have to work all the time. But if none of that happens how we need it to happen, I’ll refer to #5 and #8 and it’ll all be ok.

The second thing, is how she referred to the story of Mary and Martha in the Bible when she was talking about taking a hold of the real moments. All of my life I’ve been afraid of missing out. Convinced I’ve been getting the shaft. Tortured by the guilt of trying to do it all and it never being enough. Wrestled with working my life away whilst the world happens around me. I know someone like this, exactly like this, and I pray for her…constantly. That God would release her from her chains that she’s wrapped around herself, that she would know real love and real peace and real rest and that Jesus would literally just give her some breaks now and again. That he’d bless her despite how much she worries He wont.

And I’m her. I am that very girl that I pray for. I am Martha.

2011 is looming and all I can think about is the many things that need to change around here. How I need to change. This new year I hope to actually be disciplined enough to keep any goals, let alone resolutions.

Emily, thanks for being normal.

And to close, the most amazing thing about this post on Time Management from Emily, is that she gives you two free downloadable pdf’s at the bottom of the page; how to balance work and children, and how to delegate.

And, the “I can not do it all” jpegs? Also available for download, so you can print them. I just placed an order with my print company for a million 5×7’s of these to put in strategic areas around my home. And one big one to go in my office. Obviously.

Emily and her husband also do a workshop called Be Inspired, all about starting and maintaining a successful small business. If any of you ladies are interested, definitely check on info for that here. I believe registration for the current one is closed, maybe you could contact her for info on the next one!

I hope her post inspired you ladies, I truly feel like it has changed my life. Or it will change it…very, very soon.


tuesday: pic of the week, GNO.

thats right. its tuesday. and im doing a pic of the week.

tuesday is also known as backwards day. or forwards. whatever.

point is, today started as any other day…with a giant to do list. and then something happened that threw a bit of a monkey wrench in our day, putting everything else on hold, so I didnt get to my design project. TOMORROW IS A NEW DAY. And Praise the Lord for that!

 

For those of you who aren’t privy to RebekahHood’isms….GNO stands for girls night out. Every girl needs them. Frequently. I’m talking in short sentences a lot today.

Anyways, last night was girls night out for me and about 13 other SoFly girlies. SoFly is my women only photography group that I founded. Women professionals, girl talk, mojitos, cookie decorating….lets just say you’d love to have been a fly on the wall.

We had some really good discussions. About life, business, our struggles and a few triumphs. Then as the night wore on, some of us really opened up about how we felt about eachother. About our group, about our true feelings. Something so beautiful happens when women shed the “bottle it up” stigma and get real with one another. By the end of the night, I truly felt like I knew you ladies better, more intimately. Which is why I started the group to begin with. Beautiful things happen when honesty rules.

This is a shot of Sara’s sparkly heel. It truly exemplifies what the night was meant for…girls having fun and letting their hair down. Eating icing and baking cookies, slurping twizzlers and cheers’ing each other, laughing and maybe even tearing up…the perfect GNO. (*although next year my vote is for karaoke and a major dance party…ladies am I right??)


friday: real simple recap, november issue!

TGIF and TGIRSRF! that means thank goodness its real simple recap friday. I’ve been trying to get this post up for 3 fridays now. Its quite the undertaking, but I love it!

Love this issue, as I do all of them. In the editors note, Kristin talks about to-do lists (my language, for sure), how crazy the holidays are and how crazed we get in preparing for them. She ended with encouragement to all of us to get to a point where we are comfortable tossing out the giant list, and concentrating on whats really important..family, and friends, and memory makin. I like Kristin.

Without further ado…

THOUGHT – page 14, from George Carlin. “on thanksgiving at our house we like variety. so we dont have turkey every year. last year we had a swan. it was nice; everyone got some neck. another year we had a seagull. delicious! its a little fishy, but at least theres no need to add salt…this year we’re expecting a few people over, so we’re having a flamingo. and im getting the leg that folds up. they say the meat is sweeter and more tender because the flamingo doesnt use it too much”

THE SIMPLE LIST – page 18. the approximate number of pairs of shoes that American women have in their closets? 2.9 billion. GIVE SOME AWAY LADIES.

FAVORITE DESIGN AD – page 20-21. Its always been a dream of mine to have a nautical theme decor in my bedroom. To me, its so serene and peaceful…i think of oceans and salt spray and rocking gently back and forth…This ad by Nautica is exactly how I would want that room.

QUOTE – page 23. “Delicious autumn! my very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns.” Beautifully said.

YOUR WORDS – page 44. Favorite cookbook? I’d like to get my hands on How to Cook Everything! it has over 2,000 recipes. I dont know about you ladies, but if I cook, its from a recipe…so this would be great.

TRENDS WORTH TRYING – page 52. I am usually not a huge bow fan…(ask my older sister. i cringe at the sight of little girl hair bows) but Im digging these Rocket Dog grosgrain ribbon flats. And Rocket Dog is in my budget, at just $39.

page 58 – Five Minute Wow eyes. I really like this look and it totally does awaken the eyes. Covergirl Liquilineblast eye liner for $8 in bunches of eye popping colors.

page 60 – 10 finds for $50 or less! this is probably my favorite page in every real simple mag. And I’m loving the cotton coasters, the TSA approved peel down perfume pencil, and the Mulberry for Target patent leather satchel.

SOLUTIONS – page 63. 6 new uses for a book…genius! I LOVE the Christmas tree fashioned out of open faced books! I’m totally doing this next year. (ya like that? next year?)

page 66 – 9 problem solvers of the month! 1.) he mini survival kit is so key! $12 and in such a small easily hide-able bag. 2.) love the champagne carrier! I actually saw these at Total Wine yesterday and they’re pretty sweet. I dont know about you, but I’d love to get champagne as a gift! its my favorite. and my personal fave..5.)The User Friendly apron! what a fabulous gift this is! especially for someone who cooks a lot and is ADD. Factoids on an apron – rules.

page 72 – I want to take a moment to throw out minted.com and promote the heck out of them. Not exactly cheap, but super amazing for holiday cards, invites, newsletters, etc. Unique designers and studios submit their designs for you to purchase and love and send out. Look at this one…fun, huh?

page 75 – Speed cleaning your pantry. I love these features, and they’re usually spot on in timing if you get all your “ingredients” and supplies ready ahead for time. Check out the “secret weapons” part of the page to see what you need to get started!

LIFE LESSONS – Good Read, page 78. Do your self a major favor and enjoy this read by Garrison Keillor, host of Prairie Home Companion. You’ll laugh your booty off. Favorite part of the article? “It isnt a party until you sing a few songs. Group singing is one more thing for which I am thankful. Its civility in its purest form.”

Expertise, page 94 – 5) Reiterate the other person’s argument. I could see this working, really..with my children..hopefully..someday…” Begin by stating his opinion, before adding your two cents…even if hes reluctant to concede the point, he’ll appreciate the fast that you listened to him in the first place.”

BEST AD – Maxwell House International, page 98. “There are 1,440 minutes in a day. Take at least 15 for yourself.” ANTHEM TO MOMS EVERYWHERE. Amen and Amen.

FASHION- The GUIDE, page 103. Rocket Dog does it again with super cute pumps at the bottom of the page, for $59. Affordable and with glitter? yes please.

page 104. I am completely in love with the earrings on this page, Sandy Hyun…black vintage glass and white Lucite, they make me feel royal looking at them.

page 106. If I had $100 to spend on a holiday dress, it’d be blue. And velvet or satin. Blue is holiday and royal and rich looking and this Limited Dress is just the perfect pick for everything I just said.

page 110. Loving this high waisted mid-thigh tweed and chiffon skirt from Ann Taylor Loft. I love anything high waisted. Wanna know why? I’ve had 2 babies. Done.

page 113. BOOTS. Boots. boots. I love Frye boots and i’ll never be able to afford them. Well, maybe in 10 years. Maybe. For now I’ll pine over these Ciao Bella leather boots for $159 from shoes.com.

page 118. How do I care for these boots…where can I find my size in cute styles…how do I stretch them..what do I do when my boots get wet…All answered on this page!

page 128. I know I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again…as Clark Griswold would say, ” if anyones looking for any last minute gift ideas for me, I’ve got one…” . The Real Simple 869 New Uses for Old Things. I WANT THIS. Bad.

page 140. Here is an ad for that site minted.com!!! I adore adore adore the second card on the bottom.

THE GUIDE, Beauty – page 141-142. Road Tested Toothpastes! I am thinking about trying the Luster White 7 toothpaste..I need to find a good whitening toothpaste.

page 148. Great guide to finding a skin care regimen based upon your skin type. I think I’m in between oily and dry…if that makes any sense..but not exactly normal..So we will see if I can mix and match things I already have and some new items to make the perfect regimen. I say to myself every day, “rebekah, youve got to take care of your skin” and I never do. Well, I’m starting. January 1st, 2011.

THE GUIDE-Home, page 160. Jewel tone accents and colors…yes. I did a post about colored glass a few weeks back and this is so what I’m talking about and what I love. I’d be fine with white walls and neutral colors in furniture if I could jewel tone accent the rest of my house!

page 168. BENCHES. I love benches! they are very comforting to me for some reason. I’m on the hunt for one at thrift stores, something under $150 preferably, that has storage like the green bench on this page.

THE GUIDE, HEALTH – page 188. I asked Ben for one of these balls for christmas…well, I’m going to. (nothing like last minute..). And I aim to do this workout in my living room during jos’ nap times every day. A whole workout with one item? Sounds like a plan to me!

page 192- From sleep to oysters, read about some tips to keep you full of energy this holiday season. I’d like some of that sleep part please…

THE GUIDE, MONEY – page 201. the Top Five Rewards Cards. Such great info! Ben and I are trying to get out of debt and get rid of our credit cards that we have, in order to get one great rewards card that we can collect frequent flier miles on. With our job and the amount of travel we do, it just makes sense. This was great to read!

page 206. The amount of time the average woman spends shopping during her lifetime? 8 years. This is for real.

page 209. A cool thing AT&T is doing, a $12 charger that is universal and will work with any non AT&T phones. its biggest selling point is that it shuts itself off when its fully charged, “prolonging the life of the battery and avoiding so-called phantom power usage”. Pretty nifty.

REAL SIMPLE, FEATURES- page 213. Study this paragraph and read what is written. Pretty awesome, and I’d love to check out the book Home Stills once its out.

page 219 – Set, Eat, Love. Table settings for the holiday season! my favorite is on page 219, vintage mish-mash. I have a feeling when I finally do host a holiday dinner, that this is what you’ll find in my cabinets as opposed to matching sets…which is fine with me. Its me. I also love the blue and white china on page 223. Its comfortable.

Page 228, chunk knits – Love this image…its fresh and ethereal. And I am really digging this knit Ann Taylor Loft neck warmer for $34.50!

page 229. You all know my love for cardigans, and this one from Banana Republic is divine. $150 is a bit much, so I’d look for something similar for a little less chedda.

Page 236 – 4 Different Makeup Looks – These are my favorite types of articles. Before and Afters. The best! I love all three of these looks, and will be trying out the glamour girl look at my christmas party tomorrow night! I’ll take a pic and show you ladies in a post next week.

FOOD, Desserts – page 282. This looks so yummy. Pear and Apricot Tart, I’ve always wanted to make you. Maybe this holiday season I will get up the guts and maybe you will look as pretty as you do in this picture.

page 286. This Flourless chocolate cake can be made up to 2 days before your dinner party and refrigerated.  Simply bring the cake to room temperature before adding the powdered sugar on top and serving!

FOOD, Wine – page 294. Wines…whites! my favorite for sure. A great read to see what tastes suit you, and all under $20 a bottle.

FOOD, Weeknight Meals – page 307. 20 minute meal, Spiced Shrimp w/ green beans and lime, this will be on my dinner table soon! These 20 minute meals are so helpful for us hard workin ladies, eh?

REALSIMPLE.COM Tools – go to realsimple.com/holidaydecor for 30 decorating ideas. Realsimple.com/quicklooks gives you holiday hair and makeup tips!

Lastly, Dont forget to cut out the clipnsaves on the back page ladies. There is a goat cheese appetizer recipe on one of them! Yum!

 

thats it for this issue, hope you enjoyed! And seriously, if you’re not picking up an issue yourself and following along, you should!

 

TGIF!

 


thursday: LLP’s, hgtv.com

seriously?

when there is a website like hgtv.com out there, how is anyone…anywhere…EVER…supposed to get anything done? I could browse the site for hours and hours on end…

Today I want to share some pictures of some easier-than-you-think DIY christmas decorations and neato ideas that wont break your bank account and dont look like your grandmas craft attic either.

First, some gift ideas!

This is one of my faves. This is something I love to do, but I’ve usually done it with an old box. I’d like to try this with an tin cup or jar id otherwise throw away. Take magazine clippings, old cd cover jackets, scraps from posters, notes, anything to bring together a cohesive but eclectic look.

I love this idea! take a ball from a pool table and make it into a wine stopper! someone, anyone, get me one of these~!

Now for some easy and cheap decorating ideas!

This ones so simple, cranberries or what have you, with a matching candle in a bamboo or wood bowl? We all have this stuff lying around, or most of it!

Ok this one I fibbed a bit about…its not easy…and it might take some $$…but I really want to make it a project of mine for this coming year in preparation for NEXT Christmas. Its a super creative way for kiddos to countdown to Christmas. Read what the girl who shared it said, “Each envelope has a ‘coupon’ inside that is redeemable for something special (i.e., a family game night, a cup of hot chocolate, a piece of Christmas candy, Mom reading a book, etc.),” she says. It’s not only a fun family activity, but a creative piece of holiday decor, too.

SO EASY and super cute. I have tons of cookie cutters and im looking at some christmas ribbon on my table currently not being used. String em up!

Incredibly simple and very classy I think. Throw some epson salt into some mason jars as faux winter snow, or whatever jars you have, and pop a votive down in there. Done. Beautiful.

This is something that as I get a bit older and have more friends with kids and families, I’ll want to do. As it is right now we dont get a ton of Christmas cards in the mail (people, I’d love one from you to see who all my followers are! email me and I’ll get you my address!), but as the years go on and I DO get a ton in the mail, I think you’ve got to have a creative way to display them and this hits the nail right on the head. Plus its easy and cheap! Take thick ribbon, nail it in a overlapped star pattern, use some painted clothespins for hanging, VOILA!

This ones super cute. Right now, (dont laugh), my tree skirt is black..yea..super festive..and it is made up of my old moby wrap from when josiah was a baby, and a scrap piece of black fabric. I mean SCRAP…This girl took a cute apron and wrapped it around her tree! I’m gonna score a huge christmas apron and do this same thing.

Hows about an easy centerpiece idea that is wintery and beautiful? Yep, love this. Throw some branches in a tall vase and before you can say “holler if you hate crafting”, youve got a gorg christmas centerpiece.

 

Well ladies, one of lifes little pleasures TRULY IS HGTV.COM. So go browse and find some homemade handmade goodness that suits your style. Happy Thursday!


wednesday: pic of the week, blissful naivety.

I recently put one of those digital photo frames in my kitchen, in the corner of a countertop by my cookbooks. It made my kitchen feel more homey to me. My hope was that if it felt more homey, i’d want to be in there more…i.e. i’d want to cook more. Honestly so far I think it has worked a little in getting me in there for more than just some pioneer woman cookie baking.

This morning I got up early while everyone else was sleeping. Before I started to get some actual work done, I moseyed on downstairs to make some coffee. My digital photo frame was flipping through images from the last few years..2008, our last blissful year as “just us”, and 2009…the most insane year of our life thus far, so we thought. I saw pictures of Ben sick, 40 pounds lighter with illness, pictures of josiah as a little baby, images of me with huge smiles and and laughs hanging out with friends “pre-kiddo”, funny instances and alone times with just ben and I…

I got a little nostalgic and thought for one second, as ALL parents do at least a few times a week….”omgosh, I was so blissfully unaware of how easy I had it before kids.” You know you think the same thing. Oh what a state of blissful naivety I perpetually lived in, skating through each day with menial responsibilities like a “job” and “keeping house”. I got to be a wife and take care of myself and a husband..which at the time, seemed so huge…now looking back, I think, man I should have been a MASTER, a BLACK BELT if you will in “caring for the hubby” because little did I know how insane it is to care for him AND children. A blessing and an awesome responsibility, and insane. How many times did I completely take for granted the ability to simply jump up and head out to see a movie…or enjoy an impromptu dinner date with my sweetheart…or head out on a spontaneous weekend trip out of town…

Its a toss up, isnt it? a catch 22. because you know what?

how could I trade ANYTHING, for this?

how could I even begin to think about not seeing this sweet face every day?

how could I survive without the bear hugs this little man gives me day in and day out?

how could I bear the thought of not being able to melt every time I see them together?

I couldnt. Thats the honest truth.

Yep, I miss the movies. I certainly miss alone time with the love of my life, Ben. I definitely miss dates and spontaneity.

But I’d miss them way more.

As insane as every day is in my house, as crazy as I feel kiddos make me sometimes, today I know that I am beyond blessed to have them.


monday: hood life, perspective.

i remember laying underneath the christmas tree as a kid. all the lights off in the living room. the little twinkly christmas lights that mommy strung around the tree perfectly and strategically, all a sparkle and dancing as I lay there underneath..looking up, in complete awe of the gorgeousness and eye-popping view.

sad, but as we get age and become adults, christmas is less and less about us, isnt it?

the reality of this is maddening, is it not? but true none-the-less, and its something i’m learning to embrace. sure, i still look forward to a few surprises underneath the tree every year, but as i’ve become an adult and more recently, a parent, i realize how important it is to instill in my little ones (yes even from this early age!) the importance of realizing the true reason that Christmas is so special. My parents did such a good job helping us kids remember this. Every Christmas morning we read the Christmas story out of the Bible, and pray sweet prayers thanking God for the insane blessings he gives us every day, all year long. Now that I’m a parent too, I want Christmas to mean 3 things: time with Jesus in thanks and fellowship, time with my family, and a plan to help and bless others over the holiday season.

Sure, there will be gifts exchanged..good times had, and lots and lots of good food consumed for sheer tummy pleasure! But I hope as we set traditions and concentrate on truly celebrating Christmas around our house, that our kiddos will see what it means to love God and love people through the whole experience.

Its a crazy week around here….we have a Christmas party this Saturday that I have a ton to do for, another one Monday for my SoFly girls, friends in town this weekend, lots of things to edit and blog and ship out this week, and a insanely cluttered upstairs to clean. Bens still looking for another job, we’re planning out a new website and blog to introduce our new branding in January, and we have MUCHO work to do for that.

I’m trying to catch up with the mom blog this week! double posting today and tomorrow! I am fully aware its not Monday..(its TUESDAY!), but this is Mondays post. I’m trying to keep up with my lovely ladies that read this blog. Love all of you. Tomorrow’s hump-day! REJOICE!